Scientists reveal why women really fake orgasms, and it’s not always about having an unsatisfactory partner

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Nearly two-thirds of women have faked orgasms, and the reasons might surprise you. Contrary to popular belief, it’s not always about having a lackluster lover. A recent study involving more than 500 participants aged between 18 and 80, across six European countries, reveals that the main reason often relates to the length of the relationship.

The study showed that 64 per cent of women had faked an orgasm, compared to 34 per cent of men. Interestingly, the length of the relationship appeared to be a significant factor in this behaviour. Experts found that those in longer-term relationships were much less likely to fake orgasms than those in shorter ones. This trend is likely due to people feeling more comfortable expressing their genuine feelings in more established relationships.

Another curious finding from the study was the correlation between faking orgasms and the use of sex toys. People who faked orgasms were found to use sex toys frequently and often alone, suggesting a possible link between solo sexual exploration and comfort levels with sexual honesty in relationships.

However, it’s important to note that not everyone feels the need to fake their pleasure. Around a third of women said they didn’t fake orgasms because they were ‘comfortable’ with not experiencing one during sex. This further highlights the importance of mutual understanding and acceptance in a relationship.

This research was compiled from an online survey conducted across Denmark, Sweden, Norway, Finland, France, and the United Kingdom. Participants were asked about their sexual orientation, relationship status, living arrangements with their partners, and whether they had children.

Interestingly, less than half (49 per cent) of participants overall admitted to faking an orgasm. When asked why they stopped faking it if they had done so in the past, 18 per cent of women mentioned exploring ways to achieve orgasms on their own as the main reason, compared to 19 per cent of men. More men (12 per cent) than women (3 per cent) were more likely to stop because they were caught faking.

The study authors suggest that these findings highlight that orgasms aren’t necessarily needed to enjoy sex. ‘You do not need to have an orgasm to enjoy sex and feel pleasure,’ says Study author Silvia Pavan, a PhD student at the University of Copenhagen. Pavan believes that there are likely many reasons for faking orgasms, such as wanting the sex to end, trying to excite a partner, or avoiding upsetting a partner for not having an orgasm.

The findings from this study provide a fresh perspective on the often-taboo topic of faking orgasms. Notably, it refutes the common presumption that unsatisfactory partners are the primary reason behind this behaviour. Instead, it suggests that a complex interplay of relationship dynamics, personal exploration, and communication plays a major role.

This research further underscores the importance of open communication and comfort in sexual relationships. It suggests that in longer-term relationships where individuals feel more secure in sharing their genuine feelings, the need to fake orgasms diminishes. This could be instrumental in shifting conversations about sexual satisfaction from a focus on technical prowess to one centered on emotional intimacy and honesty.

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