Secret Service Agent: The 7 Psychological Tricks to Command Respect Instantly - Evy Poumpouras (Video)

In this 17 July 2024 video, host Lisa Bilyeu talks with a former U.S. Secret Service Special Agent, TV personality, host and author who is an absoluteexpert when it comes to resilience and commanding respect, Evy Poumpouras! 

You are going to learn 7 psychological tricks to command respect instantly and assert your authority in any situation.

Get ready because Evy is dropping so much brilliant wisdom about how you can bounce back from struggles with a boss, ditch the victimizing patterns in your life, and actually, finally own your shit!

We’re also digging into: 

- Strategies for setting boundaries with toxic people so they don’t mess with you anymore
- Communication tactics to choose your words wisely and get what you want 
- How to spot betrayal and figure out who actually deserves a spot in your inner circle
- Why you need to stop blaming others & embrace radical responsibility to make the most of YOUR own damn life
- Why you SHOULD let people underestimate you 
- And how to use the way other people perceive you to your advantage

Plus, Evy is spilling all her secrets on how to control any room without being super confrontational, command respect and finally put toxic people in their place – and guys, these are amazing tactics and strategies most people have no idea about!

https://youtu.be/0LN0–MCyX0

CHAPTER MARKERS: 

[00:00] Command respect
[16:47] How to influence anyone
[44:00] Let them underestimate you
[1:12:00] How to set boundaries with toxic people
[1:41:10] Get people to trust you
[2:00:57] How you present yourself matters
[2:12:05] Don’t live someone else’s life

FIRE QUOTES FROM EVY:

“Sometimes when people give you hate it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them.”

“So verbal economics means choosing your words thoughtfully, and then what you’re about to say, think of it as money, right? And the more powerful and impactful the words, the more money you’re putting down.”

“But what other columns can I control? Well, I can control what I wear, so I feel good and strong, and I can control how I look, and I can control how much I prepare, and I can control my prior linguistics, my voice, my speech, my rate.”

“If people like you, they are more likely to say yes to you. So, you know, the whole concept of, like, I don’t care if people like me, you should care because it makes a difference.”

“Even when I would work cases where somebody would steal money, I would never say to them, did you steal that money? Did you take that money? If somebody raped someone, I wouldn’t say, did you rape her? Rape is an ugly word. Who wants to be a rapist? Did you hurt her? Right. So I would be mindful of the words that I used.”

“What happens is when they betray you, you don’t expect to get betrayed like you did with the car salesman or in a business negotiation.”