UN expert joins detransitioner in urging governments to protect parental rights

Reem Alsalem is the United Nations Special Rapporteur on violence against women and girls. / Credit: ADF International

Washington, D.C. Newsroom, Sep 16, 2025 / 16:44 pm (CNA).

The United Nations (U.N.) Expert on Violence Against Women and Girls Reem Alsalem was joined by detransitioner and activist Chloe Cole last week in urging governments to support parents in protecting their children from “gender transition” medical interventions.

“Parents and legal guardians must be part of these processes from the very beginning,” Alsalem said during a Sept. 8 panel coordinated by the Alliance Defending Freedom International at the U.N. Human Rights Council in Geneva.

“Yet, in many countries, parents who do not want to endorse a ‘gender-affirmative’ approach to their children’s distress have too often been left unsupported at best, or vilified, ostracized, or even separated from their children,” said Alsalem, who opposes the “dangerous narrative” that children can make fully-informed adult-level decisions about their health.

The panel was part of a wider event titled “Empowering Parents to Protect Children’s Health and Well-Being,” which was co-hosted by the Permanent Mission of Hungary to the U.N. in Geneva and ADF International. Sponsors for the event included the permanent missions of The Gambia, Algeria, Argentina, Qatar, Vanuatu, and Uzbekistan, along with nongovernmental organizations such as Juristes pour l’Enfance, Asociación la Familia Importa, Latter-day Saints Charities, the Center for Fundamental Rights, and the Heritage Foundation.

Cole, who detransitioned after having undergone gender transitioning procedures as a teenager, echoed Alsalem, stating: “I appeal to you: We must ensure these failures are never again repeated and that childhood is truly protected as the fragile and yet beautiful part of life that it is.” 

“My mom and dad have always advocated fiercely for my safety and health but were not empowered to fulfill their irreplaceable role as guardians of my well-being,” Cole told the U.N. representatives gathered in Geneva.

“On the contrary, their protective instincts were undermined by systems and professionals who claimed expertise but withheld the truth,” she said. “They stood no chance when doctors gave them the false ultimatum of choosing between losing a daughter to suicide or having a living ‘son.’”

Director of U.N. Advocacy at ADF International Giorgio Mazzoli also joined the panel, stating: “The family must not be viewed as a competitor to the state, nor parents as obstacles to children’s rights. They are the children’s first and best guardians — entrusted by nature and recognized by law.”

Mazzoli further called on governments to establish policies that protect parents’ rights regarding education, health care, and other identity-related decisions.