Tips for Cutting Down on Stress in the Festive Season

I’ll unashamedly admit I was sent a press release with some tips to make the countdown to Christmas festive, happier and less stressful and I’m sharing the details. Chloe Brotheridge, hypnotherapist, coach and author of The Anxiety Solution, offers six practical strategies to help ease some of the holiday load.

1. What would ‘good enough’ look like?

If you’re prone to being a perfectionist, remember perfectionism isn’t about high standards, it’s about never feeling that things are good enough. It’s not the pursuit of what’s good, but instead the pursuit of what’s bad. It’s a way to burn out and never feel satisfied. If this is the case for you, ask yourself what ‘good enough’ would look like. What is a good enough gift, outfit or dinner? Remind yourself that good enough is enough.

2. Rethink your triggers

The festive period can be a minefield for our triggers, where the words or actions of others can trigger painful emotions within us. The colleague who asks you ‘why you’re still single’ at the Christmas party, the parent who treats you like you’re still 15 or your partner having one too many drinks and being argumentative. An effective way to navigate these difficulties is to think beforehand about what may come up and mentally rehearse how you’d like to respond instead. That might look like coming up with the ideal pithy reply, deciding to take the high ground and stay in your integrity or choosing to walk away and take some deep breaths. Making a plan for how you’ll respond will help you to manage these difficult moments more easily.

3. Try the ‘Physiological Sigh’

Braving the shops on Christmas eve? Up until midnight wrapping presents? Roast potatoes setting off the smoke alarm? Try this breathing method to quickly promote feelings of calmness. Dr Andrew Huberman from Stanford University created the ‘physiological sigh’. It can be done discreetly, and the resulting calmness happens right away. To do this, take a deep breath in through your nose followed by another smaller, quicker breath through the nose. After both in-breaths, exhale slowly out through the mouth. Do this one to three times to calm your nervous system quickly.

4. Ask for help

Many of us are great at helping others but find it hard to ask for or accept help ourselves. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, think about specific ways others could help out. Make the decision beforehand that if someone offers you help, you’ll say yes – even if it feels uncomfortable for you to do this. Write a list of tasks that could be taken off your plate, such as bringing a dessert to Christmas dinner, helping wrap the kids’ presents or taking the dog for a walk. There are no prizes for doing everything yourself and many people want to help out and feel useful. Don’t deny them the joy of helping!

5. Switch off and unplug

With everything extra that Christmas brings, it can be helpful to remove some of the mental noise from our lives so that we don’t get overwhelmed. Whatever that looks like for you, find a way to unplug and switch off. That might mean deleting the social media apps from your phone, steering clear of the news for a few days, making sure your out-of-office is firmly on, or deciding to put your phone in airplane mode after 7pm in the evening.

6. Stick with some routine

Our routine can be like an anchor that helps us feel secure and safe. If you find yourself away from home for the holidays, try to maintain some level of normalcy in your routine. Whether that means going on a couple of runs or keeping up with your daily 10-minute meditations, sitting down to drink a calming tea before bed; staying consistent with certain aspects of your routine will help you to take care of yourself and make it easier to get back into the swing of things once Christmas is over.

The press release was issued by the RESCUE® brand. RESCUE® Remedy is a combination of five Bach™ Original Flower Essences. The products are available from Boots, Holland and Barrett and some supermarkets and pharmacies.

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