Top Divorce Lawyer: The Most Evil Person Wins—How to Protect Yourself When Love Dies - James Sexton (Video)

In this 8 December 2025 published video, host Jack Neel talks with divorce lawyer James Sexton. The phrase “divorce creates monster” (or similar phrasing like “I’m a monster”) is a concept discussed by divorce attorney James Sexton in various videos and podcasts. This may have developed over time from how divorcing individuals can view themselves as “monsters” due to their actions during a contentious divorce, or how they believe their ex-spouse is a “monster”.
He notes that the stress of divorce can cause people to act in ways they normally wouldn’t, essentially creating a “version of yourself possible” that is “nasty”.
He emphasizes the need for parents to separate identity from behavior and not let shame from a “monstrous” moment (like yelling) prevent them from repairing their relationship with their children.
https://youtu.be/c833-WmshDY
Time Stamps:
- 00:00 – Intro
- 02:15 – Why Are People Divorcing Less?
- 06:15 – Does Having Too Many Relationships Before Marriage Leads to More Divorces?
- 11:00 – What Would Be the Most Ruthless Legal Way to Destroy Your Spouse in Divorce?
- 18:30 – How Bad Can Short Marriages Be After Divorce?
- 24:45 – Are There Any Practical Advantages to Modern Marriage?
- 28:05 – How Same Sex Marriages Changed Marriage Laws
- 30:40 – Ad Break
- 31:40 – The Most Important Question To Ask Before Marriage
- 37:00 – How Religion and Marriage is Rooted in Control
- 39:15 – What’s the Scrappiest Legal Defense You’ve Used in Court?
- 49:20 – What Do Great Divorce Lawyers Have in Common?
- 52:10 – How James Wanted to be a Lawyer Since He Was a Child
- 55:20 – Why James Doesn’t Value Being The Greatest in His Field
- 01:02:20 – Ad Break
- 01:03:10 – Why the Journey Matters More Than The Results
- 01:08:10 – What’s a Prenup Demand That Instantly Led to Divorce?
- 01:17:55 – Why People Are Bad at Judging the Value They Bring to Their Partners
- 01:19:30 – What’s a Sentence That Can End a Marriage Instantly?
- 01:28:50 – What Types of People Generally Have Great Marriages?
- 01:31:40 – Can You Predict Someone’s Divorce By Their Weddings?
- 01:35:40 – What is the Most Common Job For Women Who Divorce Their Husbands?
- 01:42:50 – James Talks About His First Marriage and Life After Divorce
- 01:53:30 – For Men Going Through a Break Up or Divorce, What Advice Would You Give Them?
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