Partners in Life, Partners in Service: Newlyweds Enlist Together

When many newlyweds are focused on building a home and starting careers, one young married couple in their 20s decided to do something different. Lance and Riley Qualls enlisted in the Army together. 

Lance is heading to active duty as an infantry recruit, with hopes of earning a spot in the elite 75th Ranger Regiment. Riley has chosen to join the Army Reserve, where she will serve as a paralegal specialist. 

“It was actually my idea first,” Lance said. “Riley wanted to join the Army and then I kind of started searching for my path.” 

Riley explored a career in emergency medical services but felt it wasn’t the right fit. When her husband committed to enlisting, she saw an opportunity. 

“I wanted something along the same lines,” she said. “The Army was close enough, and he was already doing it. There’s no better time than now.” 

The couple’s decision highlights both the challenges and opportunities facing dual-military marriages. While Lance will serve on active duty and Riley in the reserve, both will fall under the Married Army Couples Program, which works to keep spouses together when possible. 

For Riley, the reserve component offers the balance she was seeking.

“It gives me a part-time job,” she said. “That peace of mind of knowing that I have something to do when he’s gone.” 

Riley also sees long-term civilian value in her military occupational specialty. As a paralegal specialist, she will support the Judge Advocate General’s Corps by preparing legal documents, assisting with military justice matters and providing legal help to soldiers and families — skills that translate directly to civilian paralegal and administrative careers. 

Lance, who originally considered other options before settling on infantry, is embracing the physical and mental demands ahead.  

Both said the decision has brought them closer. Instead of one spouse pursuing military service while the other stays behind, they are building their marriage around a shared sense of purpose and sacrifice. 

The couple’s story is the kind recruiters love to share. In an era when many young adults report feeling directionless, these two have chosen structure, service, financial stability and mutual growth. More importantly, they said they believe the shared experience will strengthen their marriage over the long term. They will speak the same military language, understand the demands of service and be able to support each other through deployments, training and the unique stresses that come with wearing the uniform. 

For this young couple, enlisting together wasn’t a leap of faith. It was a deliberate step toward a future they chose as partners — one that combines service to country with a shared vision for their life together.